I don't know exactly where your beliefs lie, but I know in the times that I lost people very close to me... I just talked to them. I believe people who have passed on can hear you and they can see you and know how you are.
I am sure lots of little reminders (items, smells, feelings, sounds) will pop up for a long time. At first, clearly it's sad. But just think of those as her little ways of reminding you she's still there with you, looking over you and guiding you. Ya know? That's a beautiful thing. She had a wonderful life and clearly touched you in such a profound way. How lucky you were to have her (and she, you).
I hope your pain eases soon. I hate reading that you are going through such anguish.
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Date: 2007-12-01 07:10 am (UTC)I am sure lots of little reminders (items, smells, feelings, sounds) will pop up for a long time. At first, clearly it's sad. But just think of those as her little ways of reminding you she's still there with you, looking over you and guiding you. Ya know? That's a beautiful thing. She had a wonderful life and clearly touched you in such a profound way. How lucky you were to have her (and she, you).
I hope your pain eases soon. I hate reading that you are going through such anguish.
*hugs*