Steven asked the other day if I wanted to get married in the Catholic Church. I find this supremely funny because I had originally suggested that I was more interested in integrating Jewish customs into the main ceremony and also because I am a supremely bad Catholic. Really... Not only am I pro-choice, but I'm also having premarital sex and using birth control. That's the Big Three, right there. As a general rule, not only would most priests not marry me, but would not let me into their church! Evidently, though, one of Steven's (Jewish) friends found a Catholic priest in Allston that doesn't really care about the Big Three. I guess his only prerequisite is that you raise any children Catholic, which we'd most likely do partially, anyway.
So, yea... Most likely, we are going to set a date for 2007 or 2008. The earliest in 2007 would probably be December. No chance of November because we have too many birthdays, January is out because that's when my parents were married and I think that's generally a bad omen, March is also too full of birthdays, April is when Steven's parents got married (yet another omen for an unhappy marriage, if you ask me), May is when Steven got married the first time, June is way too expensive, and July is my birthday. I think we're both leaning towards a winter wedding, though. I don't think there will be a firm month/date set until probably 2006, probably after I know what's going on with my college.
As you can obviously tell, we've talked about it more after the wedding we attended this week-end. We still haven't actually told too many people, including (offically) my parents. Steven, I guess, wants to ask my grandfather's permission before we really do anything. Realistically, I'm in no rush to do anything, except finish my damned degree.
Well, and maybe try on dresses. I like playing dress up.
I'm going to go back to watching trash TV and laying around.
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